Since the moment I was called to this work my understanding has been growning so quickly that I can barely keep up with the thoughts and feelings that are transforming my life. For that reason, and because I am being called to share my journey with others, I have decided to start this series. I will be detailing my own journey of breakdowns and breakthroughs, in hopes that it will give others insight to their own needs and encourage them to take a leap into self-discovery. I hope you enjoy sharing in my journey and can appreciate the position of vulnerability it puts me in to share it with the world. I don’t view myself a courageous person, but I know that if my story can help even one of you out there, then it was worth the risk!
It’s 2018, a year of exponential growth for me, God-willing, and I am ready to face it head on! Because for me, it seems I have been living half a life, merely existing for the last 36 years. Through intentional efforts to discover who I am and what I am on this Earth to do I have come to realize that I have been holding on to a lot of pain for various reasons. Through some recent moments of pure clarity and agonizing struggle in my marriage, I realized that this issue was of great importance if I wanted to heal my marriage and become the person I was meant to be. Trust me when I say, it was a hard pill to swallow when I had to admit, the issues weren’t all my husband’s fault or all because of something or someone else. Through my research and study of limiting beliefs and success blockers, I have come to the realization that I am 100% responsible for the way that pain has changed me. Ok, I’ll say it, “it’s my fault”!
I have been aware of many of the beliefs that have been limiting me my whole life, just unware that they affected every aspect of my life. Somehow, I believed, at the end of the day these issues only negatively affected me and the small area in which they directly came from. Little did I know they’ve been deteriorating my relationships with people closest to me, hindering the development of new relationships, holding me back from achieving the success I desire; even when I worked hard for it, and worst of all stealing my joy every day! I would guess many of you have done some of these things to yourselves for one reason or another. Maybe you know why or maybe you are just frustrated and angry all the time, knowing there is something wrong, but unable to name it. Well, I am here to bring you hope! If you are battling with these feelings of uncertainty or inadequacy, I am here as a witness to tell you there is another way, it’s not easy and you will need courage, but if you take this step I can promise you will not be sorry. Make 2018 the year that you put yourself at the top of the priority list and have the courage to breakdown these barriers, and breakthrough the beliefs, to develop a new way of thinking and being. In just a few short month, I have shed more tears than I believed humanly possible, but they say tears cleanse the soul! So, if this strikes a chord in you, I say “DON’T WAIT”, start cleansing yourself today…it will be one of the hardest thing you have ever done, but it will also lead to what I can only define as MIRACULOUS development in your life! I cannot wait to share with you what this discovery and development is doing in my life, I am absolutely calling it a MIRACLE and I cannot wait to see what’s still in store for me and my family. I am sure there will be a river full of tears shed, but at the end I envision a beautiful waterfall that leads to a life filled with joy and love beyond imagination and I am inviting you to join me!
• Take it one day, one conflict at a time.
• Learn to define and communicate your feelings, in ways others can understand.
• Spend time in silent prayer/meditation, connecting with your thoughts and feelings to discover your triggers of shame, blame and guilt.
• Don’t be afraid to ask for help!
If you feel like you may need help taking that first step, contact me today to set up a free consultation. Join me in making 2018 a year of exponential growth!